God as Genie: What would you ask for?

If you could ask God for one thing, what would it be?   If you knew He would grant you the answer to your request, what would you ask of Him?

If you think like me, you’d say something like, “Unlimited wishes.”   Or unlimited Thin Mint cookies.   Or maybe you would ask for unlimited wealth.  Or health.  Or holiness.  Or fame.  Or weight loss.  Or better vision.  Or the ability to Zumba.  Near the top of my list would be to beat my son, one time, in a video game.   The answers can get silly because the question seems ridiculous.  After all, we know that God is not going to grant us whatever we want.   Why would He?   Like a giant celestial butler, doesn’t He only do things for certain people?  Don’t you have to go to church or stop cursing or give money or walk old ladies across the street for Him to do something for you?  Doesn’t He operate like a vending machine?   Only those who put in the correct coins and the right amount get what they want from Him?

God actually gives us some guidelines of the types of prayers He says He will answer.

  1. He answers prayer according to His relationship with you.  A parent would be more likely to answer the request of his own child over the bratty neighborhood kid he does not know.   A boss would be more likely to do something to help his own employee over the employee of the competitor.  Relationship matters.  If you do not have a personal relationship with God – do not expect Him to hear your prayer.  (John 10, John 15:7, James 5:16)
  2. He answers prayer according to our “standing” with Him.   You might be a Christian but if you are living in rebellion to His Truth, do not expect to be heard.  This should make sense to us.  After all, parents are more likely to do something for an obedient child than one who is wayward. (Psalm 66:18)
  3. He answers prayer according to His will.   A good parent will always allow us to have what they think is best for us.   As a parent myself, I will always say yes if my child wants an egg for breakfast.   By contrast, I would not allow a candy bar for breakfast since that would not be “according to my will.” (I John 5:14-15)  Some of our prayers, though good in and of themselves, are not what God wants for us and therefore He denies the request.  Or the timing is not right.  It’s not because He is mean, it’s simply because He knows what’s best for you – at that time.
  4. He answers prayers offered “in His name.”   A prayer to Allah is not the same as a prayer to the God of Scripture.  A prayer to the universe or to karma or to the Great White Spirit does not reach the ears of God.  Even Mother Mary and deceased disciples are not in a position to answer prayers (sorry Catholic friends!).  If my kids are in trouble they know they should call ME, not any random parent on the planet.  They can dial eight random digits on their phone but only the correct eight in the proper sequence will ring my direct line – aka “in my name.”  My relationship with them ALONE is my motivator to help them.  Though I may choose to help an unknown child in an emergency, that same child should not expect to eat at my house, borrow $20 or have me pay for his college education.   (John 14:13-14)

It may surprise you to know that there is actually one thing you can ask for and God will give it to a child of His EVERY time.  There is one request He says He will never deny.  It doesn’t matter if you are Protestant or Catholic.  Young or old.  Rich or poor.  It doesn’t matter where you live, where you work, what you have done or who your parents are.  His only criteria, it appears, is that you believe in Him and ask in faith.

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do.” – James 1:5-8

  • IF ANY OF YOU.   The book is addressed to Christians.  The offer is for those who have a personal relationship with Him.
  • LACKS WISDOM.   Even a believer lacks wisdom and is in need of more.
  • YOU SHOULD ASK GOD.   You have to ask for it.  Either you get it from Him or you learn it the hard way.
  • WHO GIVES GENEROUSLY.   God is like that.  Any gift from Him is a generous one, in substance and portion.
  • TO ALL.  He does not put limits on who can receive this gift. He does not show favorites or restricts who has access to it.  He so desires His children to have wisdom that he makes it available to ALL.  What human Dad would only want some of his children to possess wisdom?  It’s in the family’s best interest for every child to be wise.
  • WITHOUT FINDING FAULT.  If God only gave it to the “good” people, no one would get it.  He does not dispense wisdom because you are worthy of it.  He offers it in spite of your past.   He gives it because you need it, not because you deserve it.
  • AND IT WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU.   Bam!   Just like that.   Instantly delivered into your moral bank account.  Is that how it works?

Though there could be some supernatural delivery of wisdom deposited into your being, it would be safe to assume that three other components should be in place:

  1. Ask regularly.   If your child asked for something once and never again, does he really want it?   Those that ask for wisdom repeatedly show God a heart that truly desires it.  God seems to give this gift in direct proportion to your asking.  Ask Him for it once and He will give it to you once.  Ask Him every day and you should expect a daily portion.   This was the point Jesus was conveying to His disciples when He said, “If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give what is good to those who ask Him!” (Matthew 7:11)
  2. Read the book of Proverbs.   Proverbs was written by Solomon, the son of David, reportedly the wisest man ever to live on the planet (I Kings 3:11).  The purpose of the book is “to know wisdom and instruction, to discern the sayings of understanding, to receive instruction in wise behavior, righteousness, justice and equity; to give prudence to the naive, to the youth knowledge and discretion.” (Proverbs 1:1-4)    If you really want wisdom, read the Bible with Proverbs being your first book.
  3. Learn from your past.  Confucius once said, “By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.”   Every poor choice and bad decision produces a nugget of wisdom for you.  Learn from the nuggets.

Soon after Solomon became the newly installed King of Israel, God appeared to him in a dream and said, “Ask what you wish Me to give you.”  (I Kings 3)  In other words, Solomon was given the opportunity to rub the genie lamp of God.

He didn’t ask for health or long life.  He didn’t ask for wealth or fame.  He didn’t ask for victory over his enemies or even more power.   Solomon recognized, as the new leader of a huge nation, that he needed something more practical.   He asked for “an understanding heart to judge Your people, to discern between good and evil.  For who is able to judge this great nation of Yours?”  

God granted his request.  We are told that his “wisdom surpassed the wisdom of all the sons of the east and all the wisdom of Egypt.” (I Kings 4:30)  

God said to him, “Since you have asked for this and not for long life or wealth for yourself, nor have asked for the death of your enemies but for discernment in administering justice, I will do what you have asked. I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be.  Moreover, I will give you what you have not asked for — both wealth and honor — so that in your lifetime you will have no equal among kings. And if you walk in obedience to Me and keep My decrees and commands as David your father did, I will give you a long life.” (3:11-14)

That is typical God.  No one can out-give Him.  He is “able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think.” (Ephesians 3:20).   As Nancy Spiegelberg wrote,

Lord, I crawled across the barrenness to You with my empty cup, uncertain in asking any small drop of refreshment.  If only I’d known You better – I’d have come running with a bucket.”

Whether you are the leader of a nation, a business, a classroom, a family or sports team, you need more wisdom.  Right now it’s sitting on a shelf in the warehouse of God.  He’s ready to deliver it.  You just need to ask for it.

Like all things of value, wisdom is expensive.  You either get it through a humble petition or you acquire it through humbling mistakes.

Request your portion of wisdom today.  It costs less to ask.  It will be yours in abundance when you fall.


About Rod Arters

As a former youth worker, business owner, school teacher, coach and inmate, Rod has the unique ability to relate to almost anyone in whatever situation they are in. His thought-provoking blog about life, mistakes, faith, hope & grace has been read in over 175 countries. A popular writer & speaker, Rod draws from his deep well of biblical knowledge and personal pain to encourage others along the broken journey to wholeness. He hosts an invitation-only private Facebook group for men (called the Man Cave) and enjoys helping others find Hope in the midst of their painful situations. He currently resides in Columbia, SC.
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9 Responses to God as Genie: What would you ask for?

  1. Arlene says:

    I soooo more than “like” this! Thank you for this bucket of wisdom!!!!

  2. Newman Betts says:

    Love you reasoning fo writing in the third person. Also very much enjoyed the article on Prayer. You hit many nails square on their heads. Amen!

  3. Steve Heiniger says:

    I believe God desires to and indeed does bless his followers… even “gives them the desires of their heart” according to Psalm 37. However, it’s difficult to articulate this concept without sounding like I believe in a prosperity gospel… that sounds much like your vending machine analogy. My belief that God blesses us is even more difficult to express to friends living in extreme poverty despite their faithfullness. Would love to see you take your thoughts a bit further and blog about the blessings of God in spite of some of the difficulties that I mentioned.

  4. I found your blog when looking to see who may have used my poem “Running with a Bucket”, otherwise titled “If Only I Had Known You”. Thank you for your thoughtful explanation of asking God for what we want or need.
    Nancy Spiegelberg

    • Rod Arters says:

      Nancy, how honored I am that you stopped by my blog and left me a message! You have no idea how often I have thought about your quote – which I read in a church bulletin over 20 years ago. Your perspective on God has helped me in so many ways – thank you!! What are you doing with yourself these days? Where else has your quote been used?

  5. Dear Rod,
    Thanks for your remarks. You have blessed me. I am in a nursing home and have been here for nearly four years. I have MS and other problems. I’m currently 78 years old. My poem has been used in many places, online, on radio, in books and magazines. Thomas Simmons used to sell beautiful calligraphy and people especially like his rendition of “Running with a Bucket”. I had a request from a friend just this week for copies to give to members of her Bible study. This makes me happy. I’ve asked the Lord to continue letting me write. I’ve been doing this since I was a kid.
    God bless you and your work.
    Nancy Spiegelberg

    • Rod Arters says:

      Nancy, so great to hear from you! May I ask what state do you reside in? It must be so rewarding for you to see how God has used your poem in so many places worldwide. Are you still writing now? In what capacity? I’m glad we are corresponding… I’m honored. Anything I can do for you?

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